OPTIMISM ASSOCIATES

The very best practical and emotional support before, during and post separation.

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Optimism Associates have one simple aim...

TO PROVIDE UNWAVERING SUPPORT

...for anyone experiencing separation

  • Respond
  • Recover
  • Rebuild

This initial meeting provides an opportunity to tell us more about your individual set of circumstances. We will guide you through a straightforward and clear set of questions to achieve clarity and focus. There is no cost or obligation at this stage.

A week after the first call, we provide clients with a route map to navigate the complexities and challenges of their separation process. This will include a list of recommended partners and advisors who we believe are best able to provide the support required.

For as long as you need us, we're here. We can be called at any stage, about anything at all. Weekly check-ins ensure that progress is kept on track and that practical, financial and emotional goals are met.

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We offer support in four areas

#01Housing and Financial

Helping and guidance with the gathering and collation of materials for Open Financial Statements and court or mediation sessions - Guidance with alternative dispute resolution - Financial disclosure (Form E) and completion of schedules of expenditure - Post separation budget and future cashflow planning - Pension and savings overview and advice - Provision of mortgage and housing finance advice (via independent advisers) - Advice on property options (stay, sell, or rent) - Referrals to mortgage or tenancy specialists - Tailored house search services -

#02Practical and Logistical

Comprehensive overview of separation process, demystification etc Assistance completing court or mediation forms - Explanation of legal options (mediation, arbitration, solicitor routes) - Referral to trusted family solicitors and legal aid partners - Guidance on managing correspondence and deadlines - EA/PA assistant during a hectic period for broader life admin, concierge, bookings etc Support with moving logistics, contents and furnishings Decluttering and organisation

#03Family and parental

Family mediation and MIAMs guidance Child-inclusive mediation (CIM) recommendations Co-parenting plans and agreements and management of daily routines Support for children’s emotional wellbeing Family therapy and play therapy referrals Step-by-step guidance through the separation process Checklists and templates for planning and communication Conflict coaching for practical decision-making Workshops on organisation, communication, and boundaries Schooling advice and guidance

#04Emotional and physical

Coping techniques for times of most acute emotional difficulty and stress Emotional recovery, self-esteem and resilience-building programmes Counselling and therapeutic referrals Guidance on sleep, nutrition and physical self-care Relationship readiness coaching Workshops on communication, trust, and boundaries Support for dating after divorce and repeated relationship patterns Support for rediscovering interests, values, and life goals Family integration and stepfamily support

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